"Kittyn" <wooly@[EMAIL PROTECTED]
> wrote in message
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> On Mon, 25 Feb 2008 19:52:15 GMT, "Brian Smith"
> <dcg_brian@[EMAIL PROTECTED]
> wrote:
>
>>"Nunya Biz" <dont_be_nosey@[EMAIL PROTECTED]
> wrote in message
>>news:H_zwj.5876$Dz4.2341@[EMAIL PROTECTED]
>>> He pushes her away, but she keeps coming back. She's throwing herself
at
>>> him even though he's made it crystal CLEAR, he doesn't want her. The
>>> absolute proof can be seen in the videos here. A blind man can see he
>>> has
>>> no interest in her.
>>>
>>>
>>>
http://www.bb9spoilers.com/index.php/2008/02/25/big-brother-9-drunken-make-out-fest-alex-and-sharon-go-at-it-while-matt-pushes-natalie-away/
>>
>>There's no doubt she's delusional at times but events early on in the
game
>>gave her reasons to believe that there was the possibility they could
get
>>together. Even now he keeps telling her how great she is, etc. She does
>>realize the *** part (I'm not sure why he couldn't kiss her considering
he
>>was kissing the other girls last night) isn't going to happen so to keep
>>their partner****p strong he should pay more attention to her. That's all
>>she
>>really wants anyway and he keeps saying he wants to play the game so
they
>>have a simple solution.
>>
>>Brian
>>
> I think even before the blowjobs, he had made it clear that he wasn't
> really into her. He even tried, as I noticed on the feeds, to try to
> disuade her from the oral ***, but she was insistant. I think he did
> what many young men would do in a similar situation and went for it. I
> think then as he started to get to know her, he knew that she was
> getting way too attached and realized that continuing to do anything
> further with her would not be the smart thing to do. Perhaps he just
> thought she was wild and was into doing something random, no strings
> attached and then when he realized her feelings were going to get
> involved, he felt it would be the right thing to do by not letting it
> continue.
>
> Should he have tried harder to not let her do anything in the first
> place, sure. Should he have found a way to make it clear to her that
> he only wanted to be friends without totally blowing her off, sure.
> However, I think he has realized now that he was rude to her in his
> attempts to disuade her and now has been trying to be nicer to her.
> However, that has not stopped her from refusing to accept that he is
> not into her. Last night, she cornered him and practically forced her
> nipple into his mouth, even after he had refused to kiss her over and
> over and didn't give her anything more than a peck. Any self
> respecting woman would have realized that he was not ever going to be
> into her when she witnessed him making out with two other girls but
> still refusing to give her more than a peck. Instead, she corners him
> and throws herself at him yet again.
>
> She is delusional. Even before the oral ***, she was already
> declaring to everyone that she was glad that the person she was
> attracted to was her partner, even after he told her she was not his
> type. I honestly feel badly for her, as she seems somehow desperate.
> I don't think the oral *** really made a difference in the long run.
> She would still be feeling rejected by him no matter what happened the
> first week. She still seems to think that somehow she is going to get
> him to want her. He could be a complete s***bag and screw her like
> she is begging for, but I think he realizes that she is troubled and
> doesn't want to give her any reason to keep her hopes up.
You made a very compelling case. Maybe Nat is feeling that time is running
out for her and she's totally bought into this soul mates twist. If she
toned down using *** as her big allure and thought more highly of herself
she would probably have a lot of guys interested in her. She does appear
to
be a nice person and have good intentions but she's clueless about how to
get what she wants. Too bad someone wouldn't talk to her about that right
now, but I only see Alli being capable of doing so and being credible.
Brian


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