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> On Fri, 05 Oct 2007 13:01:24 -0700, jeanmac1959@[EMAIL PROTECTED]
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>>The reason Mr. Petersen has gained weight lately is the simple fact
>>that he has made a serious effort to quit smoking after a health scare
>>about 4 years ago when he experienced a heart arrythmia or irregular
>>heartbeat. His doctors told him he had to quit smoking, a habit he's
>>had since his late teens.
>
> Although I hadn't read about his stop-smoking efforts (congrats to
> him!), I noticed the weight gain. But sheesh, he's still a *really*
> good-looking guy. Men can age. Men can gain weight. Men can have
> gray hair. Us women, however, we're screwed <g>.
That has never made any sense to me. I've seen women who had gray hair,
some wrinkles and a good deal of extra padding who were *very* ***y.
Maybe
I wouldn't have thought so when I was in my teens, but through my twenties
and thirties I learned to focus on what attracts me and not on what
doesn't.
A sparkle in the eye, a quick smile with a hint of naughtiness, a sense of
adventure, these things and more help contribute to a woman's overall
***iness. And if a woman has extra padding and stuff, I think about how
she'd feel rather than how she might look modeling the latest fa****ons.
Chubby bodies feel great in bed, much better than thinner ones. Plus, I
don't have to feel so self-conscious about my extra pounds when I'm with
her
than I would if I was with a thinner woman. Wrinkles mean soft skin, and
gray hair means a woman who'd had enough experience to know what she likes
and how she likes it and isn't afraid to tell you, making it a lot easier
to
be a great lover with her.
I think a lot of guys, especially younger guys, have too narrow a focus
when
it comes to what a woman has that makes her ***y.
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