"Vox" <Vectra3456@[EMAIL PROTECTED]
> wrote in message
news:47dd3b5d$0$17360$4c368faf@[EMAIL PROTECTED]
> Laura M. Young wrote:
>> On 3/15/08 8:11 PM,"Alane" <alanesue@[EMAIL PROTECTED]
> wrote:
>>
>>
>>>Would it even be considered cheating? Hadn't they broken things off
>>>at that point?
>>>
>>>Alane
>>
>>
>> Many of us, including me, don't consider it "cheating" after she'd
turned
>> down his marriage proposal and run away, but some people believe there
is
>> a
>> specific period of time you have to stay celibate after a breakup to
make
>> sure you are really broken up before you are allowed to start
>> dating/having
>> *** again.
>>
>>
>
> I am usually hard core when it comes to any cheating but even I feel in
> this case it wasn't cheating. You are broken up, you are free to do as
> you please. Kate has no case IMO.
>
> Vox
Wow, if you have a hard line on cheating, watching soaps must be torture!
Just kidding. I draw the line at killing, but I still watch every minute
of
GH aka Murderers, Inc. (no FF).
I suppose the issue between them is really not cheating, but the fact that
Kate felt differently than Sonny about what happened during and after the
proposal. (Sorry PJ - I see you just wrote almost the same thing). I
think
it should give each of them pause about how the other is going to both
interpret and react to the things that will go on in their relation****p.
I thought Kate's statements about how she would tolerate Sonny's
indiscretions when they were young was emotionally bizarre. Equally
bizarre
was her statement to the effect that if it was just some floozy, as
opposed
to Claudia, she would be okay with it. I sense that she has been poorly
trained in the art of relation****ps.
Zac


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