On Tue, 29 Apr 2008 05:52:41 -0700, Vox <Vectra3456@[EMAIL PROTECTED]
> wrote:
>Ruby Vee wrote:
>> On 2008-04-27 08:35:42 -0400, Vox <Vectra3456@[EMAIL PROTECTED]
> said:
>>
>>> You can not be sure what kind of a father someone is going to be
>>> unless you give them the chance. No one KNEW AJ would be a bad
>>> father...they just assumed it. And given the choice between someone
>>> with problems and a MOBSTER, I'd take my chances with the nutter. AJ
>>> at least needed the op****tunity to try because it was HIS SON, for
>>> crying out loud.
>>>
>>> They all blew it as far as I am concerned but AJ morally should have
>>> been allowed the op****tunity and Robin came forth, fortunately, with
>>> the truth.
>>
>>
>> While it is true that no one knows for sure what they (or someone else)
>> will do in a situation until they're IN the situation, AJ had stated
>> flat out that if Michael were HIS child, he'd take him away from his
>> mother. In that situation, I believe that after carrying the child for
>> 9 months, Carly had every right to keep Michael's paternity from AJ.
>>
>> Ruby (And at that time, I HATED Carly and LOVED Robin!)
>>
>
>
>....and so the eternal debate continues......
>
>Nope. A person, in my world, always has the right to know. It's pretty
>hard to "take a child away" from it's mother. That threat isn't a good
>enough reason to withhold the information.
>
>Vox
Yet, everyone seemed to have sympathy for Alexis when she withheld the
information from Sonny.
Bottom line is that it was not Robin's truth to tell. She only had
the information because Jason confided in her. Maybe I am alone here,
but I think if you love someone you hold something they have told you
in the strictest confidence, such as a confidence to a spouse or a
priest.
And, as for it being hard to take a child away from its mother,
remember that we were not talking about the average couple. It was a
member of a very powerful family with unlimited resources and
connections trying to take a child away from a mother that had at the
very least a questionable past who didn't even know who the father of
her baby was without a DNA test. Don't you think that information
alone played a lot into her fears?
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