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> El Puerco wrote:
>> "Michael Black" <et472@[EMAIL PROTECTED]
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>> > "El Puerco" (arriba@[EMAIL PROTECTED]
) writes:
>> >>
>> >> What men think is a "bad boy" and what a woman thinks is a "bad boy"
>> >>
>> >
>> >
>> > I think men make the mistake of thinking that women want the "bad
boy".
>> > I suspect it's more like they want the "dating/seductive capable",
>> > which
>> > may too often be in the same package as the bad guy. In other words,
>> > they aren't interested in being abused by a man, but those men have
>> > somehow magically gained the ability to approach women, and they
>> > respond to that. Or maybe such men just aren't put off by
rejection...
>>
>> Applying the anthropic principle to dating? I like it!
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> (zoom) You used a word I do not know, so I'm not sure what you mean?
>
> (shrug)
>
> I think I know what women want: (1) A nice guy but who is (2)
> Confident and/or nonchalant. In other words, he acts like he does not
> care if the Girl in front of him says "yes" or "no" because he is
> confident there's a hundred other women waiting to say yes.
>
> Unfortunately like the other poster said, too often the "confident" guy
> also equals the asshole who treats her like she's worthless. SO WHAT
> DOES CLARK NEED TO DO? He needs to stay his "nice" caring self, but
> get out of that darn barn, and go start asking women for dates.
> They'll say "yes" to the nice but confident Clark, and he'll forget
> about Lana.
From my point of view, Clark should date Chloe, since she is the only girl
that knows his true self and she is quite comfortable with that
responsibility. That logic could only be thwarted by there being some
external force that draws Clark to Lana--and I think that is the case.
Something has been drawing Clark to Lana since the Pilot--maybe it is her
genetics or maybe just some adolescent fixation. Whatever it is, it is
unnatural and Chloe should be the target of his affection.
BC
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> BTW, what I said about nice but confident guys also applies to women.
> Men are attracted to women who act "self-assured" in the knowledge that
> they are beautiful & men will ask them out. Her confidence is a huge
> attractant (which is why so many people here like Lois, even though I
> think she's a _____).
>
> This isn't to say that shy girls can't get dates.
>
> Because even a shy girl will eventually get asked out by someone.
>
> Unfortunately the reverse condition, where a shy guy gets asked out, is
> not true. So shy/non-confident girls are getting dates, but the
> shy/nice guys like Clark are still sitting in their rooms and wondering
> why they have no women. (Which raises the question... Do guys even
> need women??? My vote is no; but that's a different issue.)
>
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> Source: Mars/Venus on a Date..... plus my own experience & simple
> observation.
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